Dutchess County Divorce Mediation Attorney
Get a Divorce without Court in New York
When your divorce seems to be headed towards an amicable conclusion, you may want to rely on mediation techniques to finalize it, rather than courtroom litigation.
During mediation, you and your spouse will sit down with a third-party family law attorney who acts as the mediator. Instead of fighting back and forth or allowing the third-party professional to make decisions for you, the mediator is there to help you and your spouse understand what is going on, what your rights are, and what is probably the best solution for each problem you encounter.
If you are looking for a mediator, our Dutchess County mediation legal team from the Law Office of Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr., LLC can help you. We have more than 65 years of combined legal experience dedicated to family law and reaching agreeable outcomes for our clients and their families.
Set up your consultation today with our Dutchess County divorce mediation team for more information.
What are the Benefits of Mediation Over Divorce?
If you are still wondering if mediation is right for you, it is time to consider some of the many benefits that mediation can offer that traditional divorces simply cannot. Right away, you should expect to feel less contention and intimidation while going through mediation. Without the air of a courtroom around you, it is easier to feel at ease and focus on the task at hand, rather than getting caught up in past grievances.
Other benefits mediation can provide you and your spouse include:
- Cost: If you do not need to keep going to court, you do not need to keep paying the court for its time and attention.
- Expedience: Speaking of the court’s time, you do not have to rely on its own clogged schedule. Mediation is set to your calendar and can therefore conclude faster in most cases.
- Privacy: Divorces go into public records where anyone can “go through your dirty laundry.” Mediation does not – it is all confidential and for your eyes only.
- Equitable: Legal guidelines and legislation can feel impersonal and overlook your own needs. Mediation puts the power of choosing what is fair into your own hands.
- Practice: Realistically, your divorce signing will probably not be the last time you see your ex-spouse. Mediation can help you “practice” communicating with one another without conflict.
Difference Between Mediation and Arbitration
The difference between mediation and arbitration is that a mediator is a neutral third party that does not have the authority to make decisions without the approval of both parties, while an arbitrator is more like a judge that has the authority to make decisions without both parties’ approval. Consequently, arbitration is higher stakes and is used more often by large businesses and consumers.
Distinguish the Good from the Bad with Our Help
Many couples who enter into mediation are excited to know that they can compromise with their spouses instead of getting into legal fights in court. This anticipation of the dissolution of their marriage should be approached with some caution, however. There are always good compromises and bad compromises, and if you are focused on just getting to a compromise, you might be selling yourself short again and again.
Let our Dutchess County divorce mediation team be there for you during your mediation. We can either be the mediator or be your legal counsel during the mediation. Whatever your choice, you will not be disappointed with the trustworthy guidance we can afford you.
Contact us for divorce mediation help today. You will be glad you did.
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"Unfortunately some of the hardest times in our lives we need an attorney to help guide us through such emotional and uncertain and scary period"Unfortunately some of the hardest times in our lives we need an attorney to help guide us through such emotional and uncertain and scary period. Choosing the best attorney can take away some of the fear and anxiety Dennis and his absolutely amazing team have held my hand and calmed my nerves on more than one occasion Stacey is always on the other end of the phone to reassure me that it is a process and it will be ok.I have found such comfort in Dennis his knowledge and strong confidence that he and his team have it all under control allows me to focus on myself and my children while they handle my case. I highly recommend this firm!- Jennifer Garofolo
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"I am extremely thankful for having received the best representation from my attorney Kristen D. Farris for a temporary order of protection case against my soon to be ex-husband."
I am extremely thankful for having received the best representation from my attorney Kristen D. Farris for a temporary order of protection case against my soon to be ex-husband. Everything went so smooth with her amazing expertise and professionalism. In the court, she took charge right away and everything was just so well. I was so relieved! The outcome of the case was perfect and the case settled without any issues. I had no chance to stress! Finally, the office staff was so friendly and the communication, which was mostly through e-mail, was perfect. I am looking forward to working with Kristen with the next steps of getting a divorce. God answered my prayer when I asked for a great attorney :) I was so nervous but thankfully everything went so well!!!
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"Kristen and Erika were wonderful to work with. Very professional, yet compassionate. They thoroughly explained everything in understandable terms."
Kristen and Erika were wonderful to work with. Very professional, yet compassionate. They thoroughly explained everything in understandable terms. Both Kristen and Erika were prompt in all communications and kept me informed throughout.
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"Tough, gracious, generous, and committed describe Kristen’s qualities as my attorney."
Tough, gracious, generous, and committed describe Kristen’s qualities as my attorney. And much thanks to the paralegal team as well. Their combined experience provided prompt support whenever I had any questions and helped talk me through my situation and to provide clarity. I can’t thank Kristen and her team enough for the all hard work and kindness through the process.
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"Christal Prinz is OUTSTANDING! She has compassion and a wealth of knowledge about the law."
Christal Prinz is OUTSTANDING! She has compassion and a wealth of knowledge about the law. She has a good common-sense approach as well. It was a delight to work with her considering the circumstances and nuances of my case and the law.
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"I am so thankful I found this law office to handle my divorce. Kristen was a pleasure to deal with and handled my divorce flawlessly. Communication was always very fast, and always very clear."
I am so thankful I found this law office to handle my divorce. Kristen was a pleasure to deal with and handled my divorce flawlessly. Communication was always very fast, and always very clear. I highly recommend! Couldn’t have been handled better. Thank you.
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"The guidance and knowledge they provided was immeasurable."I am so grateful for the wonderful team that assisted me through one of the most difficult times of my life. The guidance and knowledge they provided was immeasurable.- Jessica Conklin
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"I am happy to recommend DRV Law and Kristen F. specifically. As a father divorcing an intractable and vengeful spouse, I was terrified of how the court would treat a father vs a mother, as well as of how my ex could muddy and delay the process."I am happy to recommend DRV Law and Kristen F. specifically. As a father divorcing an intractable and vengeful spouse, I was terrified of how the court would treat a father vs a mother, as well as of how my ex could muddy and delay the process. And all in the midst of a pandemic that made everything more complicated. Kristen and her team’s legal advice was consistently spot on, the office’s communication was regular and helpful, and their billing was fair and understandable. You won’t be disappointed in them!- A.B.